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Poor communication is the death spiral of any marriage and this is important stuff that should be talked about.
Fortunately, I have talked like that with the woman I love now..she gets it.
Then there were the two very well-endowed guys who decided to bring out my submissive side for an entire day. Chances are, if you're halfway careful, you will get away with it the first time, probably the second, etc.
But the risk grows over time and you can get (dare I say it? You'll get sloppy about your computer habits or she'll start to wonder whether you really played poker with the boys Tuesday night and check your alibi. ) You will be living a secret life and only you will know if the thrills outweigh the chills. Peabody's Wayback machine and change anything, I would have screwed up my courage ten years ago and told my ex that I was deeply unhappy with our sex life and wanted to try new things.
You probably won't do this because it scares the living shit out of you.
Either way, I could have avoided all of the dishonesty I engaged in while I was married by being honest about sex with a woman I professed to love.
Even on your personal laptop, always delete the browsing history every time and use "In Private" browsing or some version of it.
Whatever secret e-mail host like gmail or Yahoo you choose, select a password that would literally never occur to your wife.
The vast majority of guys will do this because it's the path of least resistance and we're lazy by nature. Only a few will dare to traverse this rocky and winding trail. I lived that lifestyle for the last four years of a now defunct quarter-century long marriage.
Rather than telling you my whole sordid tale here, suffice it to say that I had plenty of experience in the world of secret married cocksucking.
Trust me, there are plenty of married "straight" and bi guys sitting in hotel rooms within 10 miles of you who are shopping online for a cocksucker right now. I'm guessing that even with no small amount of experience, precautions and proven techniques, I still had a "conversion rate" of less than 50 percent after setting up a man meat meeting.